3 Reasons Eliyanah is the Perfect Name!!

Eliyanah's name means "my God has answered"
... and here are 3 reasons why we think we chose the perfect name for her. 

1. Alivia prayed for a baby sister!

The day that I found out I was once again pregnant I couldn't wait to tell Ben, so I wrote a cute little note and placed it in a box along with the pregnancy test for him to open. He was happy about the news! The very next day we went to a baby shower for a friend. One of the ladies there was very pregnant and Alivia asked her if she knew if she was having a boy or girl. This started a conversation on whether or not we were going to have another baby. Alivia answered before I could reply myself saying, "Yes, she is having a baby girl". I was just a little bit shocked. I didn't know if she had heard us talking the night before! When asking her about it she told us that she had been praying every night (which I know she had been because she would pray it out loud for us to hear) and God told her we would have a baby girl. I was convinced throughout my entire pregnancy that it was a girl because of this story. Pretty amazing!

2. We prayed for guidance!

We had been praying throughout my pregnancy for God's guidance on if Eliyanah would be our last child. He answered us through my labor and birth and we are content with Eli being the baby of the family! 

3. Her nick-name is Eli!

We didn't have a boy name picked when I was pregnant with Graysen but we did have the name Ellie picked out if we had a girl. We named Graysen at the hospital and my girl name was no longer needed. Fast forward to being pregnant with Eliyanah and I brought up the name Ellie a couple of times and it just didn't feel right for Ben or myself. I loved the name still, clearly, as I kept bringing it up but something didn't feel right about it. I think it was because it was meant to be for our #3 if we had a girl instead of having Graysen. It was like we already used that name or something. It was pretty perfect when Ben said "how about Eliyanah" because the first thing I thought of was that her nick-name would be Eli (different spelling than Ellie). She is our sweet Eli girl and I love that I still have that name in our family and that if feels right now. There is a pretty even mix of calling her Eliyanah and Eli right now-- not sure if/when we will go to Eli all the time.

Eliyanah's Birth Story!!

Eliyanah's birth marks the conclusion to this season of my life; pregnancy and birth. Was it meant to be my end? I would not be able to say with certainty before my labor and delivery with her. Ben and I were quite confident that our #4 would be our last child, but I was not ready to commit to the idea that we were officially done.  The day that we had Eliyanah, God guided us to our answer in a rather bold approach. Here is my story of how Eliyanah Grace Spiers was born...

Thursday April 27, 2017
I was 1 week overdue with baby Spiers #4 and was headed into an appointment for a biophysical exam and ultrasound to make sure she was doing well. I was 2 weeks overdue with Graysen and did not have this done but my midwives were new to the practice so I chalked it up to different policies. I have never been so relieved that they mandated this exam and ultrasound at 41 weeks (in order to attempt going into labor naturally over an induction). I actually bypassed the biophysical exam because my ultrasound showed that my placenta was dying and I had 0% amniotic fluid. Baby Spiers #4 had some decreased movement but I thought that was because she had less space to move around in. I also felt like I had been leaking some fluid for the 2 previous days before the appointment, but I waited to say anything because it wasn't a ton and I knew I had an appointment coming up. In fact, I told Ben the night before my appointment that I felt like I was leaking fluid. The ultrasound tech looked over everything for about a minute and said "you're having a baby today!" I was then moved to another room to talk over details about how the day would go. I called Ben to tell him to forget going into work and to pack his bag because he had not done so yet. I called my mother-in-law to see if she could watch the kids next. My midwife, Megan, came in the room after my phone calls and told me she has only seen 1 other mama with 0% amniotic fluid and that I was in the 1% of this statically happening. 

My midwife instructed me to go home and finalize my my details with the kids, grab my hospital bags, and eat some nutritional food because I was on a time crunch. She wanted me at the hospital in 1 hour. I knew going into that appointment that there was a small chance that I would need to be induced that day but I really didn't think it was actually going to happen. 

We arrived at the hospital and there was a room already ready for me because my midwife called ahead and informed the nurses about my situation. I got hooked up to the screens since I would have to be continuously monitored for the duration of my labor due to my lack of amniotic fluid. My nurse on duty told us that our baby did not sound happy but that she was stable enough to go forward with the induction. 

I was dilated on my own to a 1 cm and started low dose pitocin. Ben and I chatted and day dreamed about our baby. I was struggling with having to be induced since I have never had to before and was pretty nervous about the contractions. I had heard plenty of stories about how different it is from going into labor naturally. The contractions were mild and manageable in the beginning but I knew that the pitocin was set pretty low. 

The nurse came back in and checked me and I had moved to 2 cm and was somewhat concerned because they were starting to hurt. She did increase the amount of pitocin I was receiving. I began to start having to work through my contractions that were becoming longer, stronger, and were close together. I unfortunately did not have the longer breaks in between contractions in early labor like I did in my other labors without induction. Contractions were coming every minute and they were becoming more painful, especially without the capability to move around and adjust to different positions. 

My contractions were still every minute and were quite painful and difficult to get through. Pitocin had been increased again and I started to talk to my nurse about an epidural. I went into this labor with a really open mind. {My birth plan was that if I had similar labors with the boys that I would get an epidural because I did not want to labor for a few days (yes this happened) and push for hours (yes this happened) but that if things looked different that I would attempt another natural birth} My nurse was pushing for me to wait until she saw more change in the cervix because I was only dilated to 4 cm. I was on the verge of crying when I heard her say that but another contraction hit and I had to focus all my energy on getting through it. My midwife walked in as I was having that long contraction and said "wow, it seems as though you are really having to work through these contractions. Do you want an epidural?" I could have hugged her right then and there but just said "YES" with a big smile until the next contraction started up again. I am so thankful Megan walked in at that time because my nurse really wanted me to wait until I was around 6 cm. 

During my laboring in those 2 hours, I told Ben I had a feeling that I was going to have a c-section that night. He stopped me from going on and said "don't say that!" This was the 2nd time I had this feeling. The first time was a few weeks before my version and I felt like God was telling me not to worry about this pregnancy but that I was going to have a c-section. At first, I decided not to go forward with the version because of this feeling and just to opt into having a c-section. I changed my mind because I wanted to see if it would work and ultimately I wanted to try it over having a repeat c-section.  In hindsight, I would have fully listened to the Holy Spirit and not done the version. I am thankful that God prepared me for this labor and delivery and prompted me with a second feeling so that I wasn't completely taken by surprise when the (below) unplanned events happened.

I received the epidural and was mighty thankful for modern medicine at that moment. I was over-joyed that I could get some rest before the pushing phase since the only memory on my mind was how I pushed for 3 hours with Graysen. My midwife placed internal monitoring in to have accurate readings. I also had to be placed on oxygen as my blood pressure dipped from the epidural. 

The nurse checked me again and I was now at 5-6 cm. I decided to take a nap because all the excitement of the day was overwhelming and tiring. Ben was able to leave to get some dinner at Jimmy Johns before things progressed any more.

THIS is where things change...

My nurse came in and asked me if I felt any change or pressure below because she had seen some good contractions and thought I was ready to push. After checking and confirming I was complete at 10 cm, she asked me to do a few practice pushes. I practiced a few times before my midwife came in to get everything ready for a baby. I was pushing really well- thankfully my 40 weeks of working out really paid off- but Megan could tell something was off. She checked and said that the baby, like the boys, was posterior and therefore not engaged. I was discouraged but not surprised. My babies like to be in one position in my body and she was in the same cozy spot the boys favored, so I had guessed that she was probably posterior after the version. I pushed for close to an hour and Megan tried to manually, internally turn her to an optimal position but it was not successful

My midwife asked me how I felt about just going in for a c-section or trying one more time to turn her. I wanted her to try one more time but as she was attempting it, I told her "I trust you. Whatever needs to be done to have this baby safely is most important." It was exactly at that time the baby's heartrate dropped and wasn't coming back up and that I started bleeding way more then the normal amount. It was as if saying "I trust you" to Megan was really meant for "I trust you" to God. I did trust God and I knew all along that I was going to have a c-section, but I just didn't want to be seen as weak or that I was giving in to a c-section without trying. I often have these strong feelings about things that come true, and I am starting to realize how important it is to trust God and not second guess myself that they are just day dreams or things that I make up because of my emotional state but it is the Holy Spirit guiding me and I need to listen and trust. 

I was seriously scared out of my mind because I have never been in such an intense situation before. Nurses were everywhere. Unknown faces staring at me and shouting out demands that needed to be done quickly, I was hysterically crying. Even though I knew this needed to happen this way, I was still emotional about the chaos and about my and my baby's health. 

I was rushed to the OR where Megan stayed by my side and assisted but a doctor on call did the emergency c-section. They didn't have time to adjust my epidural so the anesthesiologist put me to sleep for the procedure. 

The doctor was on call and in the hospital but happened to be right outside my door when my midwife made the call for an emergency c-section. He scrubbed in and was all ready before we even arrived to the OR. God handled the details so perfectly! Even though it was an emergency, everything was perfectly in place. Megan said that the standard care when a midwife or doctor calls an emergency c-section is 20 minutes from calling it to delivery. The nurses and doctor had everything set and completed the c-section in 4 minutes from entering the OR to delivery and 6 minutes from when Megan called it. I'm so glad Megan was my midwife that evening! She made the call at just the right time and knew when it was time to get my baby delivered. 

Delivered my baby!!

I woke up in a daze and honestly for a brief moment forgot why I was there until I saw my midwife's face and she said I had a healthy baby. I said "I had a baby" several times and asked her if it was a boy or girl. She knew that I wanted Ben to tell me so she asked if I was sure I wanted her to tell me. I'm glad I remembered that I wanted Ben to share the news with me because it was magical to find out from him. At first he told me we had a boy and I believed him because I was on a massive amount of drugs and I'm gullible. I was happy to have a healthy baby but was kind of sad not to have another girl. He started to laugh and said "maybe you should check and see yourself" and that is when I knew we had a girl. He officially told me he was teasing and said "It's a girl!" and I may have joyfully yelled "YEAH, I knew it!" As I was holding our baby girl and bonding with her, I overheard Ben talking to Megan about the c-section. It's at that time that I found out that I had a uterine rupture. She saw that I was listening and came closer to fill me in on the overall procedure but didn't go into a ton of details and I wasn't ready to ask a ton of questions. Around 1% of women have uterine ruptures and my chance of having one occur was even lower because I have had 2 successful vbacs. 

I am beyond thankful for God's provision and for the details he carved out for us even before we entered the hospital that day. I am beyond thankful for my care that I received from the nursing staff, my midwives, and the doctor who delivered our sweet girl because it really could have gone another way. I am alive today because my midwife made the right call, because the doctor was in the right spot at the right time, because it was not my time and I still have purpose on this earth. I am beyond thankful for my life. I am beyond thankful for my family. I am beyond thankful for my friends. I am beyond thankful for God's love for me and that he chose life for me and my precious #4. 

This is my final chapter in my birthing story and I am so blessed that God choose Eliyanah to be our sweet girl that completes the Spiers' family. Because it is rather dangerous for me to have another baby, we have our answer and are both confident that Eliyanah is our last child. I am thrilled to have our bookend, another girl. I always wanted a sister growing up and love that Alivia will be able to experience living life with her brothers and sister.

It's a GIRL!

Introducing Eliyanah Grace Spiers 

Name Meaning: My God has answered 

Birthday: April 27, 2017

Time: 9:35 via Emergency C-Section 

Weight: 5 pounds 13 1/2 ounces 

Length: 18 1/2 inches 

I asked the nurse to make her a bow hat

Sleeping Beauty 

 She is a sleeper


1st Outfit 

Enjoying my view

Close up and adorable

Nolan meeting Eliyanah for the 1st time

 Graysen meeting Eliyanah for the 1st time

Aunt Becca meeting Eliyanah for the 1st time

Grammy meeting Eliyanah for the 1st time

Grandma meeting Eliyanah for the 1st time

Aunt Jo meeting Eliyanah for the 1st time

Alivia meeting Eliyanah for the 1st time

GG meeting Eliyanah for the 1st time

Cute & wrinkly little toes

All bundled up

Daddy and Alivia loving on Eliyanah 

Hands by her head just like in the womb

Precious girl 

4 days new and getting ready to leave the hospital 
The view I looked out at from our hospital room during my 4 day stay

Not a happy camper in her carseat

Looking back- 38 weeks to 41 weeks with Baby Spiers #4!!

Here are some Facebook posts documenting my journey that I made during my last few weeks before we had Baby Spiers #4.

April 4th:
Today's freezer meal adventures included wild rice and chicken soup and mini chocolate chip banana bread muffins. Stocking up and getting ready for baby Spiers #4 (38 weeks tomorrow)!!

April 5th:
I'm currently waiting at the hospital for a version this morning. I went to bed nervous for the procedure, the outcome, and waking up so early but woke up with a feeling of peace that only God can provide. Thankful for a praying husband and his support along with the prayers of others. I'm excited to meet this baby regardless of delivery route. 38 weeks today! (I'll provide an update when emotionally ready.)

April 5th:
Update: version was successful and my sweet baby is head down. Thanking God for his peace and this "turn" of events so we can go forward with our birth wishes. The procedure took about 20-30 seconds total and was pretty amazing!! It was uncomfortable but not painful. The 1st thing I noticed was that I could breath better almost immediately. I was extremely impressed with the doctor who did the version because she told me and my mom that she doesn't like c-sections and learned how to do versions to help prevent mamas from having c-sections. She also said a lot of doctors automatically turn to c-sections for breech babies because it's considered "easier" and "faster" for them, but she is a mama too and didn't want a c-section so she wants to prevent it as much as possible. Thankful for this extremely sweet and experienced doctor placed in my path. Thankful for your prayers!

April 19th:
I'm 40 weeks today {FULL term} and I feel pretty great. I'm excited to meet this little one within the next 2 weeks but don't feel the slightest bit discouraged because I know this baby will come when he or she is ready {or through induction at/after 42 weeks}. We are ready whenever this baby wants to make his/her grand appearance. This baby is already so loved and we can't wait to experience life as a family of 6. Preparing for lots of snuggles, little sleep, and an unknown transition for mr. Graysen but couldn't be happier God gave us another blessing to raise and love on. Spiers baby #4, we are joyfully and mostly patiently waiting for you!!!

April 23rd:
We have NO names picked out for this baby, not even maybe names. Names just keep proving to get harder and harder to pick. Both boys were nameless... Nolan for a few hours and Graysen for most of the hospital stay. I can't wait to see this baby because apparently we do our best work in picking out a name we love under pressure. Lol!!!!

April 26th:
Baby bump • 41 weeks tomorrow! Physically super tired, emotionally still doing pretty well, mostly excited that I can confidently say that I get to meet this sweet baby by next week or before. 😀

Graysen Pictures!

My "baby" is turning 2 tomorrow so here are some pictures from over the last month or so. He is getting so big and starting to talk a ton. He is totally into the toddler stage (which is adorable and hard) and not so much my baby anymore. He is going to look like such a big kid when baby #4 joins our family. :)

Being my patient boy eating his snack at my 36 & 5 day appointment.

Playing with an I-Phone case acting like it's his phone.

Alivia and Graysen posing so sweetly for me!

Alivia asked Graysen for a hug and I was able to capture this sweet, sweet moment!

After eating lunch and before nap time smiles.

Pretending to drink his "tea"!

Smoothie smile...

Playing with the laundry basket during his first movie night with the big kids.

Loving the snow!

Bath time and a mischievous look after I told him not to drink the bath water and he did it anyway!

After bath selfie.

Hanging out with big brother Nolan.

Reading with daddy before bedtime.

Being a silly kiddo playing with big brother and sister.

Washing daddy's car on a nice winter day.

Swinging with Alivia at this cool park that we love.

He loves being outside and loves swinging at the park.

This kid LOVES his grammy (He is wearing a play nurse scrub that was my brothers)!

Cheesing it up with big brother and sister!

Playing with Alivia.

Snack time in a weird spot. :)

Squishy dough play.

More hugs for alivia!

Another cute selfie!

Just being silly.

Couch snuggles with siblings.

One of his favorite spots: eating food.